Monday, July 12, 2010

10 Ways to Motivate Children Regarding Their Schoolwork

A common remark I've heard over the years when people learn that I homeschool is "I could never homeschool, my kids would never listen to me.  I can barely get them to do their homework."  My usual reply is that my kids listen to me regarding their schoolwork because that is all they know.  If my children were used to somebody else being their teacher, they probably wouldn't listen to me regarding their homework either! 

Having said that, though, I have tried over the years to keep my children motivated regarding their schoolwork.  I want my children to try their best and finish their work in a timely fashion without excessive dawdling.  While I certainly don't have any foolproof methods to guarantee highly motivated children, I have used many methods to encourage my children in our homeschool.

  • Offer choices when choice is an option.  I have had success using Writing Menus in the past with my children.  A Writing Menu allows them to choose writing assignments from a list of acceptable writing assignments.
  • Offer small rewards/tickets for excellent work.  I have used a system of small rewards or tickets for larger rewards in the past and it has worked well.  I don't think this system works as well when children get older (because the rewards teens desire are often too expensive) but when children are little and enjoy inexpensive treats and toys, a trip to the "reward basket" can be quite rewarding!  Rewards can also be non-tangible such as playing a game of the child's choice with Mom or getting to pick the restaurant for after church on Sunday.  Kris from Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers has used a Treasure Box for rewards and has had success with it.  A great place to order inexpensive treats and toys is Oriental Trading Company.  They have many toy assortments to choose from on their website.
  • Keep a running list of the child's independent reading and offer a prize when the child reaches a certain number of books.  Each of my children has a Reading Chart.  All of the novels they read for school and all of their independent reading is written on the chart.  When 50 books are reached, I pay the child $10.00.  We follow our local library's reading club guidelines that 50 pages = 1 book and the book has to be age-appropriate.  Again, the Reading Charts were more motivating to my children when they were younger but they do appreciate the cash reward for the reading!  As well, I have ready-made lists of all of their reading for the school year to put in their portfolios for year-end evaluations.
  • Put stickers on completed workbook pages that reflect excellent work.  When I grade, I always use stickers to complement my encouraging words.  Sometimes, my children even ask if they can pick the stickers to put on their pages.  Stickers are fun, relatively inexpensive, and bring a smile to a child's face.  And, my teenager still enjoys the stickers!
  • Snacks, snacks, snacks.  One of the most motivating things I can do for my children to keep them moving through their schoolwork each day is to provide snacks and a hearty, comforting lunch for them.  A small bowl of fresh strawberries can really brighten the mood of a teenager who is struggling through a difficult math lesson.  A cup of animal crackers can be just the motivation needed for a 9 year old boy who is trying to match Latin and Greek word roots with their meanings.  I know that snacks can be a distraction with very young children but I find them a welcome addition to the homeschool day now that my children are a bit older.
  • Drinks, drinks, drinks.  Right on the heels of snacks, snacks, snacks is the importance of keeping my children properly hydrated during the day.  I encourage my children to drink lots of water throughout the day.  Hot chocolate, smoothies, or juice often accompany the children to the living room for our after-lunch read-alouds.
  • Publish their writing.  I can think of few things LESS motivating than completing an assignment and then watching my teacher chuck it in the garbage.  While I can't save everything and I do toss some workbook pages after they have been graded, returned, and reviewed; I do make a point to publish the vast majority of their writing assignments.  What do I mean by publish?  Through publishing, I try to share their work with others and celebrate their writing.  I wrote a series of posts about different ways to publish student writing including:  Publishing Student Writing, Paper Bag Books; Publishing Student Writing, Tall Tales and Bare Books; Lapbooks and Folder Books; and Publishing Student Writing, Bound Books.
  • Gush about their work on your blog.  I love the Weekly Wrap-Up at Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers because it gives me a weekly opportunity to showcase art projects and accomplishments from the week.  My children enjoy seeing their schoolwork showcased on my blog and it gives their work a much wider audience than our immediate family.  I always share encouraging comments with them.
  • Showcase their work throughout your home.  While I primarily display art projects, other schoolwork could be proudly displayed as well.  I wrote an article last year for The Homeschool Classroom about different ways to display children's artwork.  Jimmie from Jimmie's Collage wrote a great article about displaying schoolwork at Heart of the Matter.
  • Look for ways to share their work with others in the community.  Our state homeschool organization has a yearly Showcase where homeschooled students can come and share their accomplishments with others.  My middle son will be putting together an art exhibit of some of his best artwork to share at the Showcase.  He is already very excited about the opportunity and the Showcase is months away!
I am sure there are lots of other ways to encourage and motivate our children at home.  What have you done that has been successful in motivating your children to do their best on their schoolwork?  I'd love to hear your ideas. 

10 comments:

Nicole said...

This may be my greatest challenge. I will be homeschooling for the first time this fall ... my 13 year old son! My other children, ages 15, 6 and 5 will all still be in public school.

Tristan said...

Great ideas! Things that work over here include:

- snacks
- a fun activity following the hard work. I'll tell them that as soon as math is done we can play outside for 20 minutes of bake some cookies. I offer free reading time to my oldest, or playdoh to my middles.
- I try to break up work into manageable chunks. If my daughter really does need to do both sides of the math page for practice we do 1 side and then switch to a up and moving activity, then go back to finish the other side of the math. If we're working on a Download N Go we often take 2 days to cover 1 day's work.

Samantha said...

Nicole,

I do think teens offer some challenges in the motivation department! Based on my limited experience with my 13 year old daughter, I find I need to pay as much attention to snacks and drinks again as when she was a toddler! She's a competitive swimmer with a demanding practice schedule so keeping her "fed and watered" really helps with her mood, energy level, and motivation.

I also think variety is very helpful for teens (as it is for us all). A teenager's workload can easily become filled with lots of reading and writing and very little opportunities for hands-on projects. I try to be sure that my oldest children still get the opportunity to do hands-on projects and that they have variety in their day regarding their schoolwork.

Best wishes to you as you homeschool your so next year!

Tristan,

As always, you have great ideas! Manageable chunks are super important - that was a good reminder.

Samantha

Roan said...

Thanks for blogging about the snacks and drinks. Munching and drinking while working really helps everyone's mood. I will admit though, that I have sometimes thought that maybe I shouldn't let them snack so much while doing school....but your post validates our snacking. Thanks. My older three children are all runners, and they too need the hydration and quality calories.

What a fabulous idea about publishing their work. I really need to do this. I know that it would really encourage them.

Have a great day!

jonnia said...

We could not POSSIBLY do math without food around here! Great ideas!!! I'm especially interested in adding writing menus to our week. My little one is a control freak. (Don't have a clue where he gets that.) Any choices I can offer him make him very happy.

Robin said...

Great suggestions! I love Tristan's ideas too. Short chunks really helped my son have a chance to wiggle between assigned work periods. We took "chore breaks" or had him jump on the trampoline for 10 minutes to help with his need to move.

Rule #1 of schooling at our house: No fun until work is done! That means, if mom allows children to watch TV or play with Legos when they have not completed their work, then... why should they finish?

Rebecca (me!) said...

I absolutely love your idea about publishing your children's work. I need to research more (from your blog) regarding this. My 7 yr old recently asked if I would help publish a book for her.

Marbel said...

I really enjoyed reading this. You have some great ideas.

Two of mine:

Promising to read aloud to my kids after the more tedious work is done. They are 11 and 13 and still love to draw or crochet while I read to them. If we have a great book going, they'll get their work done more quickly.

Making the work relevant. My struggling writer does not complain about composition when he's doing it to fulfill a Boy Scout merit badge requirement. As along as he's getting the writing practice in, it doesn't matter to me how he does it.

The Mom I Want To Be said...

Thanks for the great ideas! I'm going to work on showcasing my kiddos work :)

Pebblekeeper said...

Love it! I totally agree!